Is He Playing You? The BS Meter!


Some guys know all the right things to say and do to make you fall hard for them, even if they only see you as one of their (possibly multiple) playthings.

No matter how much you like him, don’t ignore these signs that he’s trying to trick you into thinking you’re the only one he wants;

He Knows Way More About You Than You Know About Him

If you find yourself doing all the talking during your conversations, and when you ask him something about himself he doesn’t say much, it may be because he’s hiding something or doesn’t want to get too close to you. Many guys just aren’t big talkers, but if he hasn’t told you the details of where he works, where he grew up, went to school, etc., and if he gives you vague answers when you ask him about these specifics, then that means he’s keeping you at a distance.

He’s Tends to Be Vague

If you’re constantly confused after your conversations with him, it’s possible that he’s playing you. He would avoid mentioning concrete people, places or time frames and keep it all very vague and fuzzy. It is hard for players to keep track of all of their lies… Is he always dodging questions and changing facts as he recounts them? If yes, you might be dealing with a player here.

He Doesn’t Tell Anyone About You

If he doesn’t introduce you to his friends, or ask you to hang out with them once in a while, go to a party or get together with them – that’s a sure sign that he’s not sure about the whole thing. Of course you may not want to hang out with his friends much, particularly if they’re a group of partying bachelors, but they should at least know about you, and it should be your decision. How they treat you when you’re around can also be a big tell-tale sign of how things are going or will go – if they kind of treat you like “yeah, you’re the girlfriend of the month, I’ll talk to you if you can make it past week 4”, then that’s a sign of what’s likely to be coming next.

He Has Flirty Exchanges with Other Women On Social Media

Not everyone is super into social media use, so it’s not necessarily a big deal if he has no signs of you on his page. What is a big deal is if you see him making flirty comments on other women’s photos or posts. Some guys try to say that this behavior isn’t a big deal because it’s all online or “just a compliment,” but don’t let him manipulate you into accepting this if you’re not cool with it.

He Doesn’t Talk About His Plans For the Future With You

We’re all for living in the moment and enjoying the “now”. But eventually in a relationship a discussion of future plans has got to come up – otherwise you’ll never know if the two of you are sailing together or heading towards different continents. If he’s not at least occasionally talking about the future with you then chances are, in his mind, you’re not in it.

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